Monday, October 25, 2010

Curveball

baby Mason getting NG tube feeding
 So...as if this situation hasn't been confusing enough, it just got even more so.

It turns out that at least one other person in the known universe DOES have Mason's exact deletion of 14 genes. We were kind of hoping that if someone else had ever had it, it would give us some insight to how to treat Mason better.

BUT. Not exactly the scenario we were looking for has transpired. It turns out that this one other person (at least that we know of right now) is...you guessed it. 

ME. Myself. And I. 

That's right. His own mommy has it. The FISH blood work we had showed the least likely scenario of all--the one the geneticist said they totally did not expect at all. But of course if we've learned anything on this journey so far, it's to expect the unexpected. The geneticist expected the test to show that this deletion was brand new in Mason, in which case it was probably the reason for all his issues. Or, he expected it to show that Brian or I had all the genes Mason is missing, just possibly rearranged (called a balanced translocation - anyone can have translocations and not show symptoms or a syndrome of any type, but when they pass it on to a baby it can become a deletion). Well the test showed that I am missing the very same chunk of genes he is. ??? is all we can think. I always knew he was a mama's boy. But ... a little more of mama than is good for him I guess. But what does it all mean?

We have no idea. The geneticist's best guess is that, since I have the deletion and have no huge health issues like Mason, then another mutation somewhere (another un-tested-for-yet syndrome) is behind Mason's issues. Obviously this brings up a lot of questions we will have to talk through with the doctor before we have any idea what the next step is. For example, he's a boy...I'm not. Things may play out differently based on that fact with the very same deletion. But right now it basically means we are back to square one, trying to find what is actually causing all these problems. It may be a really long time until we have answers, if ever. Obviously if we have Micah tested and he has this deletion too and he is "generally okay" (although we know Micah has never been exactly the picture of health) then it means that probably this deletion causes SOME problems but by itself shouldn't cause the degree of problems Mason is having and they will need to test for other things as he has other symptoms growing up and a clearer "syndrome" emerges. (He hasn't had any genes for specific syndromes tested at all yet--he's only had a test looking for missing chunks of genes, which they found. But for example if they think he has a particular known syndrome instead, something known to be caused by a change on a certain gene, they can look at that gene. Right now they have no clue where to begin looking at the genes since his set of symptoms is so unique. But we do have some theories and ideas for them on where to start and will be talking to them more about this later in the week we hope.

In the meantime, the ball is rolling to seeing the light at the end of the NICU tunnel. Wednesday is the day scheduled for Mason's G-tube surgery, with Nissen wrap (see previous post for the why's and what's of this). It's scheduled for 10:30 am. Please pray with us that they are able to control his pain much better this time than after his malrotation surgery and that he doesn't have any withdrawal issues or more seizures and fevers in the recovery period (which will be longer and more painful than if he was getting the G-tube alone).

Today he had a repeat heart echo to be sure the final heart defect, a VSD, is gone (they have a hard time believing it would close up on its own in only 10 days but we have a big God so I don't doubt it!!). He also had a repeat kidney study today to make sure his swelling is gone that he had when he was born. He has a few other consults and tests to be done before he can go home ... a skeletal survey x-ray, developmental pediatrician, another MRI probably, etc. But if his recovery goes well that's the plan...to get us trained in all his home care needs and to go home!! He's still growing like a weed...check out the meat on his bones!! Last night he crossed the 12 pound mark! :)



It's Monday again...so here's what I've been trying to tell myself to get through another long week:

I gotta keep my eyes on Jesus
Through the weak days;
In a world where we really don't belong,
I've discovered if I keep my eyes on Jesus
Through the weak days,
Then even on the weak days
He'll make me strong.

- Steven Curtis Chapman

8 comments:

  1. Wow! Look at those legs! He's growing like crazy! :) Mason we are all praying for a very successful surgery for you tomorrow!
    love, Aunt Christy :)

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  2. What a journey you guys are on! Thanks for letting us travel along with you;. We will be praying for Mason's surgery to go well. I know you will be thrilled to be able to bring him home soon. Danielle

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  3. Wow, lots of hurdles jumped and now? - one at a time!! Yes, we do have a big God, and you are doing great remembering Him. Mason is in our prayers and so are Mommy, Daddy, and Micah. I am excited Mason will get to be home with you all soon!! Beth S.

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  4. The Word says there is nothing new under the sun. Therefor, someone, somewhere is going through the same thing you are or someone will be. You and Mason may be trailblazers in finding out what causes such health issues. The sucky part of trailblazing is that you do all the hard, painful and dangerous work so others can travel more smoothly. God will continue to give you the grace to carry on. We're praying for you and Mason. You can do this because Jesus is right next to you, holding you up.

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  5. First of all, I want to tell you congratulations on your sweet little Mason. It truly sounds like you have been on quite the ride since his birth. He is beautiful!

    I sure wish Nathan could have had legs like that at Mason's age. It wasn't until his g-tube was placed that he actually started growing.

    As I read through Mason's issues, I really am amazed at how similar he and Nathan are. Nathan had malrotation surgery, g-tube placement, was born VERY hairy, had the same heart condition (but it closed on its own).

    We never had the genetic testing done because clinically, Nathan had all of the signs of RTS...broad toes and thumbs, flat finger pads, pointy nose, and TONS of hair. We were told that there are only 3 syndromes with broad thumbs and after doing all of the research and looking at other children with RTS, we were 100% convinced, and remain that way today.

    The first year was hard, but I am here to tell you that it does get easier. I am not going to say that it isn't without tears, but the joys are still there, no matter what milestone is met, and when it is met.

    My heart goes out to you as you remain in the hospital with your sweet Mason and try to cary on a normal life for your other little one. I must say that you are getting all of the difficult surgeries out of the way before you even go home. We were admitted 9 times in 18 months for pneumonias and 4 surgeries. I kind of wish we would have been able to do all of the surgeries before we brought him home because it was very difficult going back all of time. But yahooo...we have not been to the hospital with Nathan in over a year!!!! He is 2.5 years now and doing great!

    Hugs to you and your family as you continue to walk the NICU road! Please feel free to email me at mrs.olives@yahoo.com if you ever need to talk!

    Brandi
    oliversfamilytwist.blogspot.com

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  6. So here I am again, I just read Mason's birth story. From the difficulties breathing at birth, to the appendectomy during the malrotation surgery to the sleep apnea, feeding issues, reflux problems, low tone...goodness, they are even more alike!

    I see you are at Cardinal Glennon. Have you met up with Jessica Pruitt? She lives close and her son Alex has RTS.

    Hugs!

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  7. Wow. What a curve ball. Praying for you here. That is some thigh on that kid!

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  8. Another RTS mom praying for you! I hope you get some answers and some peace for your sweet baby Mason. What a doll!

    Lots of love to you!
    Kelly

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